Tuesday, August 4, 2009
Boring...
when i studied at schul during weekends...
bcuz of boringness...
i took sum nice photos(i tink =p)
share them out let u al c^^
Saturday, July 11, 2009
苏格拉底与失恋者的对话 ————情场失意的朋友,请耐心看完它。
苏(苏格拉底):孩子,为什么悲伤? 失(失恋者):我失恋了。 苏:哦,这很正常。如果失恋了没有悲伤,恋爱大概就没有什么味道。可是,年轻人,我怎么发 现你对失恋的投入甚至比对恋爱的投入还要倾心呢? 失:到手的葡萄给丢了,这份遗憾,这份失落,您非个中人,怎知其中的酸楚啊。 苏:丢了就是丢了,何不继续向前走去,鲜美的葡萄还有很多。 失:等待,等到海枯石烂,直到她回心转意向我走来。 苏:但这一天也许永远不会到来。你最后会眼睁睁的看着她和另一个人走了去的。 失:那我就用自杀来表示我的诚心。 苏:但如果这样,你不但失去了你的恋人,同时还失去了你自己,你会蒙受双倍的损失。 失:踩上她一脚如何?我得不到的别人也别想得到。 苏:可这只能使你离她更远,而你本来是想与她更接近的。 失:您说我该怎么办?我可真的很爱她。 苏:真的很爱? 失:是的。 苏:那你当然希望你所爱的人幸福? 失:那是自然。 苏:如果她认为离开你是一种幸福呢? 失:不会的!她曾经跟我说,只有跟我在一起的时候她才感到幸福! 苏:那是曾经,是过去,可她现在并不这么认为。 失:这就是说,她一直在骗我? 苏:不,她一直对你很忠诚。当她爱你的时候,她和你在一起,现在她不爱你,她就离去了,世界上再没有比这更大的忠诚。如果她不再爱你,却还装的对你很有情 谊,甚至跟你结婚,生子,那才是真正的欺骗呢。 失:可我为她所投入的感情不是白白浪费了吗?谁来补偿我? 苏:不,你的感情从来没有浪费,根本不存在补偿的问题,因为在你付出感情的同 时,她也对你付出了感情,在你给她快乐的时候,她也给了你快乐。 失:可是,她现在不爱我了,我却还苦苦地爱着她,这多不公平啊! 苏:的确不公平,我是说你对所爱的那个人不公平。本来,爱她是你的权利,但爱 不爱你则是她的权利,而你却想在自己行使权利的时候剥夺别人行使权利的自由。 这是何等的不公平! 失:可是您看的明明白白,现在痛苦的是我而不是她,是我在为她痛苦。 苏:为她而痛苦?她的日子可能过的很好,不如说是你为自己而痛苦吧。明明是为自己,却还打着别人的旗号。年轻人,德行可不能丢哟。 失:依您的说法,这一切倒成了我的错? 苏:是的,从一开始你就犯了错。如果你能给她带来幸福,她是不会从你的生活中 离开的,要知道,没有人会逃避幸福 失:可她连机会都不给我,您说可恶不可恶? 苏:当然可恶。好在你现在已经摆脱了这个可恶的人,你应该感到高兴,孩子。 失:高兴?怎么可能呢,不管怎么说,我是被人给抛弃了这总是叫人感到自卑的。 苏:不,年轻人的身上只能有自豪,不可自卑。要记住,被抛弃的并不是就是不好 的。 失 :此话怎讲? 苏:有一次,我在商店看中一套高贵的西服,可谓爱不释手,营业员问我要不要。 你猜我 怎么说,我说质地太差,不要!其实,我口袋里没有钱。年轻人,也许你就 是这件被遗弃的西服。 失:您真会安慰人,可惜您还是不能把我从失恋的痛苦中引出。 失:谁? 苏:时间,时间是人最伟大的导师,我见过无数被失恋折磨的死去活来的人,是时间帮助他们抚平了心灵的创伤,并重新为他们选择了梦中情人,最后他们都享受到 了本该属于自己的那份人间快乐。 失:但愿我也有这一天,可我的第一步该从哪里做起呢? 苏:去感谢那个抛弃你的人,为她祝福。 失:为什么? 苏:因为她给了你份忠诚,给了你寻找幸福的新的机会。 谢谢。。。我曾经爱的那个她。。。 |
Monday, June 22, 2009
To Her
All I need is you
Days seems so slow
Even the clock that runs so fast..
I don’t know why
But maybe its just so hard to wait for you….
Waiting for you since the start
That we have trusted each other
For the love that is so immense
That can move even the highest mountain…
My heart that always says
You are my everything
Because you are all that I am dreaming
And all that I am hoping for
Now that we have one another
So near ‘coz of the feelings that we have
Yet so far for we can’t still be with each other
Making my heart even hungered for your love….
Days seems so slow
Even the clock that runs so fast..
I don’t know why
But maybe its just so hard to wait for you….
Waiting for you since the start
That we have trusted each other
For the love that is so immense
That can move even the highest mountain…
My heart that always says
You are my everything
Because you are all that I am dreaming
And all that I am hoping for
Now that we have one another
So near ‘coz of the feelings that we have
Yet so far for we can’t still be with each other
Making my heart even hungered for your love….
Saturday, May 2, 2009
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
A nice song(That's My goal)
You know where I come from
You know my story
You know why I'm standing here
Tonight
Please don't go
Don't be in a hurry
I'm here to make it clear
Make it right
Well I know I've acted foolish
But I promise you no more
I've finally found that something
Worth reaching for
I'm not here to say I'm sorry
I'm not here to lie to you
I'm here to say I'm ready
That I've finally thought it through
I'm not here to let your love go
I'm not giving up oh no
I'm here to win your heart and soul
That's my goal
Please don't go
You know that I need you
I can't breathe without you
Live without you
Be without you
Well I know I've acted foolish
But I promise you no more
No more
I'm not here to say I'm sorry
I'm not here to lie to you
I'm here to say I'm ready
That I've finally thought it through
I'm not here to let your love go
I'm not giving up oh no
I'm here to win your heart and soul
That's my goal
Well I won't stop believing
That we will be leaving together
So when I say I love you
I'll mean it forever and ever
Ever and ever
I'm not here to say I'm sorry
I'm not here to say I'm sorry
I'm not here to lie to you
I'm here to say I'm ready
That I've finally thought it through
(Oh I'm ready)
I'm not here to let your love go
I'm not giving up oh no
I'm here to win your heart and soul
(That's why I'm here babe)
Yes I'm here to win your heart and soul
That's my goal
That's my goal
mayb i can sing 2 sum1 i love so much...but mayb it wil 1000 yrs later ba...haha...hu noes,rite?
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
承受
今天看了一篇文章。。。相与各位分享一下。。。看看吧!!!
人生在世,需要学会支撑。支撑事业、支撑家庭,有支撑就一定会有承受,支撑起多少重量,就要承受多大的压力。
从某种意义上说,生活的本身就是一种承受。 承受痛苦。痛苦就人生而言,常常扮演着不速之客的角色,往往不请自到,有些痛苦来得温柔,如同慢慢降临的黄昏,在不知不觉间你就会感到冰冷和黑暗;有些痛苦来得突然,如同一阵骤雨、一阵怒涛,让我们猝不及防;当我们屈服于痛苦的时候,它可能使我们沮丧、潦倒,甚至在绝望中走向毁灭。当我们承受了痛苦,我们就会变得坚强而自信,那么,此时,痛苦就变成了一笔无价的财富。
承受幸福。幸福需要享受,但有时候,幸福也会轻而易举地击败一个人。当幸福突然来临时,人们往往会被幸福的漩涡淹没,从幸福的巅峰跌落下来。承受幸福,就是要珍视幸福而不是一味地沉缅其中,如同面对一坛陈年老酒,一饮而尽往往会烂醉如泥不省人事,只有细品慢咂,才会品出真正的香醇甜美。
承受平淡。在人生中,除了痛苦和幸福,平淡占据了我们的大部分生活。承受平淡,同样需要一份坚韧和耐心。平淡如同一杯清茶,点缀着生活的宁静与温馨。在平淡的生活中,我们要学会承受淡淡的孤寂与失落。承受挥之不去的枯燥与沉闷,还要承受遥遥无期的等待与无奈。
承受孤独,会使我们倍加珍惜友谊;承受失败,会使我们的信心更加坚定与深厚;承受责任,会使我们体味到诚实与崇高;承受爱情,则会使我们心灵更臻完美、充盈。当我们终于学会心平气和的去承受时,那么,我们的人生就达到了一定的高度。,承受挥之不去的枯燥与沉闷,还要承受遥遥无期的等待与无奈。
关于爱
Sunday, April 26, 2009
泉发的离去
al buddies except me shi T.T
Chuan huat n Me^^Love him man!!!
4 of us...but seems lik i n chuat r light bulbs...ZZZ
they r chuat's frens...n my frens too ^^
昨天25日是我们和泉发一起吃steamboat的日子...他要离开中华,到外面的学院去了。。。
haiz....这对我来说,是非常伤心的一件事。。。
我在中华又少了一位好brother。。。
我认识泉发不久。。。不足与Bird,jenny,ah bui....相比。。。
但我很开心我能在我高二的时候·。。。认识到他。。。thx chuat^^
他对我来说是一位大哥,我很欣赏他的为人,他很照顾我。。。
他开朗的性格使我对很多事情都抱有乐观的态度。。。我很感谢他。。。
泉发,记得要时常回来看我们。。。(虽然他家很近一下啦XD)
BRO...祝你天天快乐。。。要加油噢!!!^^
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Hapi^^
Friday, April 17, 2009
Sunday, April 5, 2009
我是谁?
我是谁?我是谁?这是很多人反复自诘的旧问. 虽然每个人都可通过镜中的影像看到自己的容貌,尽管他清楚自己的姓名,年龄与过去,但是对于真正的"自己",很多人未必能真正了解,故而我要问 "我是谁?" 我究竟是殿堂中的巨人,抑或是封闭自惑的庸碌之辈? 我究竟是傲立于天地的大丈夫,还是像在荒野迷途的小孩般内心充满了恐惧? 我们当不愿见到自己如此猥琐,但惟恐现实就是这样. 然而,我们仍可寻回自己所期糞的目标,那些怀着信心去追求卓越的人,灵性将会在奋进坚持中获得洗涤,那些敢于在逆境中求进的人,顾盼与镜中影像时,定能见到真的自己.
Saturday, April 4, 2009
29/3/2009 was a meaningful day 4 me...thx 2 al my frens...4 accompanied me
tat day was a nice day 4 me...although i din win any prices in the jogathon race...haha....
v took many photos thr....but nw i dun hav those photos...so i cant upload them al...=.=
hmm...let i said wat happened on tat day....
i went 2 jogathon race wif my frens....
n after tat,i went 2 jia yung's house n "chui" wif her mum n sis...hehe...then i took a bath...n started my journey^^
i went 2 1 utama wif shin yee....i drove my old saga car haha....
then jia yung went 2 do his ting...so i went gaigai wif shin yee lo...i couldnt let her go shopping herself alone rite?...if she dissappered jor ho...her mum ask
me how ma cham lo...zzz
i went 2 makan "龙的传人" thr....yeah...but ho the food made me full dao..duno how 2 say jor =.=...
but ho shin yee scolded me...cuz ho i was choosing wat 2 eat tat time...n i spent more than an hour then baru choosed dao wat i wan eat o....kaka..paiseh ar...
then after makan...v went 2 shopping lo...
spent more than 3 or 4 hours on it yeah....
then i went 2 makan ice cream...wonderful man....it is too nice 4 me....rum raisin flavor lo ^^
at nite...i n my frens discussed wat v wanted 2 eat...2 options...1 was shogun...1 was tgi friday...n finali v choosed tgi friday....
i was so hapi on tat nite...most of my frens...spared out their lovely time 2 celebrate wif jia yung n me...
i wan 2 say thx 2 them here...aligato gozaimasteh...^^
v nearly "membanjiri" the restaurant lo...haha....
too many ppl thr...about 25++....yo pro man rite?
n our voices ho...too loud until v al oso felt paiseh tim ^^....
then v had a big meal thr....n v sang birthday song wif those waiters...i oso wanna thx them^^
n ho i ate peppers...my god...it is spicy man...i cant tell u al about the situation on tat moment but i tink it was funny kaka....
n i had 2 leave thr earlier...but nvm...cuz i gotta send shin yee,guan hua n roland bac....
after sent them bac...n i rushed 2 my house wif the speed more than 11o km/hour lo ^^
haha...my old car...i tink it would feel so suffer tat day...soli my luvly car....
n i finali open my blog bac...n i wan 2 write stg new^^
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